“It’s when we need nothing that we can truly be there 100% for the other person”
It’s easier said than done. To “need nothing.” Our biology rewards us for the act of reproducing and we have a fundamental fear of being alone. It’s not a wander why relationships are so confusing. So how do we transcend our biogenics? How can we fully be there for people, while also managing our own fears or desires?
It starts with unconditional love. There is an important distinction between having love and being loved. When we have love, with no condition, we give it freely and wholeheartedly. When we are dependent on being loved, we rely on external factors. Which just shows we are incomplete with ourselves. Love without conditions!