From Validation to Tribe Security: Decoding the Subconscious Goals of Communication Part 1

At this moment you are scrolling through your feed, reading words and interpreting them through your own identity filter. This caption will be interpreted differently by everyone who reads it. But, let’s reflect for a moment on HOW we communicate and WHY we communicate?⁣ ⁣

At this moment you are scrolling through your feed, reading words and interpreting them through your own identity filter. This caption will be interpreted differently by everyone who reads it. But, let’s reflect for a moment on HOW we communicate and WHY we communicate? ⁣ ⁣

Ask yourself next time you communicate: What am I gaining out of this communication? Am I getting validated? Do I feel more secure? Am I trying to offload my emotion? What’s the point of this communication? At a subconscious level, we all want to be included and fear being kicked out of the tribe.⁣ ⁣

Next time before you say something you might regret, do a quick cathartic exercise and remove your own emotions from the equation, you might actually listen better.

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